Is My Son an Alcoholic?
You have worked hard to provide your children with the resources, advantages, and structure they need to succeed, but drinking may be causing a problem.
As kids grow into adulthood, you want to allow them the freedom to flourish on their own. Sometimes, maturity hits some obstacles along the way. The most difficult part of parenting is deciding when to let your children fail and when to pick them up and support them even more vigorously.
Family therapy is a wonderful way to create boundaries while simultaneously maintaining familial bonds. If your son is illustrating disruptive behavior, it is often confusing to distinguish between normal adolescent mannerisms and more concerning patterns like substance abuse.
Many young men turn to alcohol as a way of expressing their independence. By breaking the rules, they assert their rebellious side, which may be confused for maturity. According to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, 6.6% of boys have reported instances of drinking by age 14-15. This number almost triples to 18.1% for the 16-17 year age group.
This is a pivotal crossroads. Statistics indicate that individuals who engage in patterns of alcohol consumption before they turn 15 years old are four times as likely to become habitual drinkers as those who wait until later in life to experiment with alcohol.
How Does Someone Become an Alcoholic?
These numbers are shocking, but we must not look away. Together, we can work to bring understanding to the problem and ensure that your son is not a statistic. By asking yourself, “Is my son an alcoholic?” you are already on the path to family treatment. Curiosity leads to exploration, and exploration leads to discovery. Family therapy offers a structured, comprehensive way to tackle the seemingly insurmountable task of addressing your son’s substance use issues.
In addition to physical cravings, someone with an addiction issue will also spend a tremendous amount of time thinking about their drug of choice. These thoughts become a compulsion and impossible to control, which leads to drug-seeking behavior that can sometimes be criminal.
Feelings of depression, sadness, anxiety, despair, and the like are often at the root of substance abuse. The substance might temporarily mask these feelings, but they return once the high wears off, creating a vicious circle of drug abuse.
Taking a substance will temporarily stop the cravings and compulsion for it, but soon the same feelings return. In time, it takes more and more of the same substance to achieve the same effect it once had.
People addicted to drugs and alcohol may feel like they have no control over their drug use. Refraining from using or stopping seems to be an impossibility for them. The substance controls them, rather than the other way around.
Someone addicted to drugs or alcohol will continue to seek them out even if their addiction has made them lose friends, family, spouses, and jobs. Drug-seeking behavior can even lead to diseases such as hepatitis and HIV/AIDS.
If you are considering treatment for yourself or a loved one, call us today.
DISCLAIMER: This online survey is in no way intended as a comprehensive diagnostic tool. Rather, it is a way for you and your loved ones to step back, gain perspective, and question the current direction in which your son’s life is headed.
The Whole Family Can Heal Together
To prepare your son for the “real world” and all of its complexities, give him the tools he needs to survive and thrive. Treatment can empower your child to solve any problem that stands in their way, especially issues that threaten their health and happiness.
Admitting that you or a loved one is struggling should never be perceived as a sign of weakness. On the contrary; it is an opportunity for growth. Begin your admissions process online or call (866) 200-2990 to connect with a brighter, stronger tomorrow. Your son deserves it, and so do his loving parents.
If you have an alcoholic son, we’re here to help. Contact us today and speak with one of our trusted recovery advisors.